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September 22, 2014

The Reality Of Fake Instagram Followers: Are Top Fashion Bloggers Buying Fake Followers?

Today's post has been a long time coming. 
As a blogger who has worked with some really reputed brands via my blog, I know social media campaigns with bloggers are a big part of any brand's marketing and PR strategy. After all, bloggers are the 'voice of real people' and what better way for brands to connect with their customers than through a blogger? These days, the bloggers are also referred as influencers who not only can introduce a brand to a customer in the most positive way, but also persuade them to buy it. As an ambitious blogger who takes her blog seriously and has grown it into more than a hobby, I have often wondered what constitutes an effective online influencer? Is it the quality of their content, ability to network with 'right people' or just pure statistics? {Because lets face it, brands want to connect with as many people as they can via a campaign. So more the number of your blog readers and social media fans, the more valuable a blogger is to the brand.} But can these numbers be manipulated? Can a blogger 'fake it till you make it'? There has been a hush hush talk for many months now about the authenticity of fashion bloggers' social following and that how easy is it to buy 'followers'. Last week the  popular fashion news sites like racked.com and Daily Mail carried story about how fashion bloggers 'fake it till they make it'. The article accused some of my favorite bloggers of buying the fake followers on instagram and twitter. I was IN SHOCK! I didn't believe it! How can they work with reputed companies, be the ambassadors for big brands and rake in money via their blogs if they are inflating their numbers. The article had some bloggers sources and some speculation that the top bloggers started with fake followers and once they became big, the true followers kinda came in organically. But these articles didn't put a credible source to confirm their allegation. So I decided to do some investigating of my own! I decided to test this theory and try the buying fake followers thing for myself to see how different a real follower is from a fake follower. And what I found was a real----

I tried a site racked.com had mentioned that promises to give 'real followers' and 'genuine likes' without violating instagram account policy. Just to test the theory, I bought the lowest package of 100 followers for just $3 and a monthly package of  'likes'. (Full Disclosure : Before delving into this experiment, I had 1300+ organic followers that I had generated with genuine social interaction and am quite happy with my small but authentic number.)
I don't want false 'likes' or fake followers to boost my numbers or my ego. I'd take one genuine follower who is interested to hear what I have to say than 100 fake followers who are silent. Anyhow, just to see how the fake accounts look like, I got onto the program. With the 'buying' I immediately got 100 followers. All of them looked totally fake to me! The one thing those accounts have in common is they have usually one syllable name that doesn't make any sense (like 'Ovaiucker'  or 'Aulordan' or some such.) They either have no post, or just couple of pictures that also make no sense. Random smiling face picture or a picture pulled from internet with no hashtag. They have either no followers or just a couple of followers but they follow many. Some follow 100s of users, some follow 1000s of users, but on deeper inspection, I could see the common theme of their following pattern. These accounts also didn't seem to have 'regular'accounts in their following list - like a normal instagram user should have - a friend, family of clsassmate etc. They only follow professional insta users. Without naming names I cam say that I found these 'fake' accounts followed a lot of 'TV personalities'/ reality stars (kardash..aaanchoo!) celebrity stylists / make up artists/ fashion bloggers and fitness experts. Not only from US, but from all over the world. In short, these fake users follow all those accounts that might benefit from having a large following. 
I also did some probing about the followers of all the bloggers racked and daily mail accused of buying the followers, I can honestly say that Rachel Parcell of Pink Peonies seem to have real followers. They might not be useful to a brand that is only US based because her users seem to come from all over the map. But her users seem to be real people (some are private accounts, and I found out that fake accounts can not be private) and looking at the number of comments and engagement on her instagram, it seems authentic. So I don't want to back up racked.com accusation about her. I wonder why she was singled out with her picture etc on these websites when all other international bloggers seem to have more 'sleeping' followers than her. Song of Style followers (after scrolling down a lot of follower histort) seem to be a mix of fake and real - some weird accounts thrown in. But I guess brands don't care which country followers come from and what demographic they are as long as some of the bloggers fan base is good customer material.
In my 'experiment', I found out that some of my 100 followers I bought also followed  Kristina Bazan of Kayture, Miroslava Duma and other such popular fashion bloggers. And by going into the 'followers' of such popular bloggers showed a LOT OF such profiles - the ones who follow a lot of fashion accounts but never post a fashion related picture in their own accounts! Exhibit A - this user (who is a fake follower - bought online in my bundle of 100 followers) is following 21 users - ALL fashion and style related big accounts - so it is safe to assume that she might be interested in fashion and at least knows how to use instagram. But if you look at her public profile, she has no post, no followers not even her profile picture!

And here is a list of some accounts from her 'following' tab

Few more of such fashion enthusiasts who diligently follow the high fashion bloggers. Here are their own profiles -

and here is a glimpse of the list of accounts they are following. 

Seems like these followers are really into high fashion and street style but NEVER post their own style.! *fishy*
Please note that I am not saying the couple of examples are the absolute proof/truth. It may be a carefully crafted social media padding or it may be just a co-incidence. Or may be lot of people make instagram accounts just to see the pictures and not engage. May be they follow 'suggested users' and end up following same set of bloggers. Or just the fact that when you are a big instagram user, you can't avoid fake followers from following you, who knows! I am just trying to understand a pattern here. In my experience, people who are interested in fashion and are on instagram, are usually the ones who want to show their own style too. So these 'sleeping' accounts who follow so many of the uber stylish bloggers, but never share even a picture of their own style (or #OOTD) seem little off!
I am also not suggesting that top fashion bloggers need to buy followers after they make it. May be they did buy followers in the beginning just to look popular. But now they seem to be in fashion media a lot, and once you get promoted by big names, you get even bigger. So I guess it may be a self fulfilling prophecy.  In my experiment I found that there are a lot of bloggers/instagram users who had the sleeping followers. Now I believe for sure if there are thousands and thousands of followers and very few comments and likes that account may have bought the followers. 

However, for bloggers like me who want to believe that content is the king, it sounds sad that good content might get neglected and the social media following might be considered sole criteria for the brands. I can only hope that when I can do this much 'investigating' for no monetary reward, a brand marketing team that is being paid monthly wages, will surely look into the authenticity of fashion bloggers' influence! or NOT.

But I guess in a world where everybody wants to be famous, you can't blame those who buy fame. It is true that --

During the recent Fashion Week in New York, I met a a blogger friend of mine and we discussed about the reality and perception of fashion industry and specially of the fashion bloggers. We both thought that fashion is a world of perceptions. Now don't get me wrong, I am a fashion blogger and I know it is hard work and a lot of thought goes into a simple outfit style post or a small blog feature about style, but having said that, I think it is fair to say that fashion bloggers really have to portray their online persona in a more glamours way than their real life! In a world obsessed with the 'next big thing'  the fashion bloggers need to maintain the perception of actually being THE big thing. To be noticed as a serious influencer, you have to act like you have got this! The top bloggers seem to have constant, engaging content (might be frivolous for some, might be cool for some) on their instagram and fair to say that people may like to follow them for pictures.
I will say this though - fake followers don't engage, they don't respond and they don't give feedback. But in fashion world (that is notorious for its narcissistic nature), may be one is happy to listen to the echo of their own voice.
In conclusion, I feel sad for bloggers who buy online followers because it means they are either looking for validation of their own self worth from outside, or that they are just living a lie! Andy Warhol had once famously said,"In the future, everyone will be world-famous for 15 minutes". It seems like we are living that future! In a world of reality TV and social media celebrity and street style 'stardom', the fame looks like a low hanging fruit anybody can grab if they just try!  

 BTW, just to make things clear, I canceled my account with the company that sends 'free likes' after a day as I was done with my probe. They didn't respond to my email about not keep the account active for a month and just stop sending 100 likes for a picture for a month!) Now to avoid their 'likes' I post a picture after midnight when most of my real followers are off instagram, and as soon as I get those instant fake 100 likes, I delete it and then post it again so I can see who 'really' liked the picture! Phew!

But unfortunately, my account will active for a month anyway and I might get likes from the fake users. I know some of you might think that I'd like to have more likes/followers even if they aren't real, but let me assure you that I don't like to just hear the echo of my own voice! However, I'd like to engage with you real insta users:-) If you are out there, check out my instagram 

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 PPS. Please don't consider this post as accusation of any sort against the mentioned instagrammers. I am big fan of some of these bloggers' style and admire their business acumen. But the purpose of my post is to share my experience. I now have a better idea how to spot a blogger who has fake followers and I AM,,,,


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August 9, 2013

#BLISSandTell: My Moments Of Bliss


With the fast paced life full of deadlines and to-do  lists, and multitasking schedules, we all experience the moments when the walls around us seem to close on us! The stress of doing-it-all and trying to have-it-all catches up with the best of us! A recent study* that surveyed more than 1,200 consumers revealed that nearly 50 percent of Americans spend at least half their daily lives stressed out. The cure for stress varies, with 89 percent agreeing that a night out on the town does little for stress relief. More than half admit a vacation is what they need the most, while a quarter of the respondents say personal time would help treat the stress. We all deal with stress in our own ways.  My mantra for stress-busting -

1- Focus on the positive - We are humans. We are not perfect. We make mistakes. So when things seem to go awry even with your best efforts, cut yourself some slack and focus on what you have done right, and what you are capable of. As they say- count your blessings!

2- Remember what's important - We all have days when nothing seems to go right. When we have many projects going, many things to finish, we forget whats important and whats not! To prioritize the to-do list helps me bring down the stress level. For example, during summertime when my daughter and I spend more time in the park or exploring library or just doing any other fun activity in the City, I realize my house is a mess, dinner is late, laundry is not folded, and I start to have the feeling of  'oh-it-is all-so-chaotic!', I make myself see that food can be ordered out and I can always bring out the vacuum late in the night, but the time I am spending with my kid and memories we are making as a family can not be substituted with an immaculate house and lavish dinner spread!

3. Let it go -  I believe strongly in fate, karma and the feeling that GOD HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYONE. When things don't go the way we planned, the only course of action is breathe and let it go. Give your best shot, if it's meant to happen, it WILL!

And last but not least, take advantage of nature and science for aiding in stress relieving. Foods rich in antioxidants and vitamins help lead you a healthy, happy life. I am trying this new beverage neuroBLISS , a delicious tropical citrus lychee flavored drink designed to reduce stress and relax the mind. It contains chamomile and a powerful blend of vitamins, minerals and antioxidants including L-theanine, an amino acid found in green tea which has been found to reduce stress, produce relaxation and enhance focus. Although I have only recently strated drinking this, I can confidently say that it has the soothing, calming effect I usually get from my afternoon tea! It is lightly carbonated and tastes amazing! It has the taste of superfruit lychee (If you are unaware of this, look it up!. Growing up in India, this was my FAVORITE fruit. Luscious, juicy and so very refreshing!)
 All varieties of neuro drinks have only 35 calories per bottle and contain no artificial colors or flavors!
Experience the taste and soothing effect of neuroBLISS by getting your own bottle of BLISS and save $1 with this coupon!

 neuro is urging Americans to join a stress reduction movement with the launch of its BLISS and Tell campaign, which encourages consumers to take time to relax and share their blissful moments. What's your Bliss moment? Tell it on twitter/instagram with hashtag #BLISSandTell and you could win $10K dream vacation!! Now that's what I call a truly blissful moment!!:-)
I would love to hear your thoughts on your strategy for dealing with stress!
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* conducted by neuro brand
**Disclousre: I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls Collective and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.
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May 4, 2013

Where Does The Time Go?

Really where does it go? I mean I always find myself looking for the 25th hour to finish up one last chore!  Amid Mili's classes, homework, play dates, household chores, my fitness routine and blog - I usually find myself running (not the good kinda running y'all where you tone the legs - but running where I forgot the library card in my other wallet, or miss the 4:12 subway because the metro card was out of money!) The Monday starts with early morning school bus and Friday ends with the weekend looking expectantly at me for the things we have planned pushed back for Saturday! 
And while I am barely finishing up things-to-do, there are Pinterest boards reminding me how other women have a beautiful clean house, perfect menus for entertaining and amazing craft projects they'd be doing with their kids while I refill my metro card! I guess I need to work on my time management (I see another post coming about that!) Or may be I just need to accept the fact that sometimes we need to just let things go a little. So my mantra for this weekend is - a happy house is a messy house, perfect menu is what is sticking on your refrigerator door and the craft activity this Sunday is just snuggling-with-hubs&kiddo-till-the-sun-comes-up -really-high!! As we prepare of another busy weekend at our home, I made up a resolution of letting some things go and just not worry about achieving  perfection! As they say - keep calm and enjoy the weekend:-)

Shirt - Tilly's
Shorts - Topshop
Shoes - Target (Spring uniform shoes!)
Hat - Charlotte Russe (Such a steal!)
Glasses - Asos (clear or shaded)
Watch- Fossil via Piperlime

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April 7, 2012

Quick Celebrity Pregnancy Weight Loss Distorting Our Reality??

Before I say something about celebrity moms' weight gain and weight loss, I want to clear 2 things -
1. I am a fitness enthusiast. I feel good about working out, respect people who exercise and eat right, and maintain a healthy weight (whatever that number is for their body!) So I have nothing against people who focus on keeping fit. I am all for it!
2. This post is not about regular weight loss and the reality of it, it is about new mothers losing pregnancy weight.
Now where was I? Yes, celebrity new-mom weight loss and the reality new-mom weight loss! Before I go any further - just look at these images!
Jessica Alba just months after having a baby

Kate Hudson slim again very soon!

Miranda Kerr mere months after  having her son

Heidi Klum walked the Victoria's secret Runway after only 8 weeks of giving birth!
Beyoncé just after 4 weeks of having her daughter,  Jessica Alba 4 months after having her second baby!
Now I know these women depend on looking a certain way, having to conform to industry requirements of the body image and they have the means and resources to get in shape without sacrificing much. But when we see images like these all around, somehow their weight loss timeline and style becomes the norm! (talk about pressure on sleep deprived, tired and overwhelmed new mothers who may not have personal chefs and trainers!) There are people who can lose weight easily, some have better metabolism, and some really can work out and eat right with military discipline, but in all practicality, it is almost impossible for an average new mother to look like Beyoncé or Miranda Kerr or Jessica Alba mere weeks after having a baby! It took me almost 8 months to lose those 40 extra pounds I had gained during my pregnancy! (You can read my weight loss story here
In India, we are not a particularly fitness obsessed society. In fact up until last decade, there was a concept of "being too thin' and curvy body meant you are happy and prosperous in life!! So when Indian media and blogosphere went beserk over the weight gain of one of India's biggest celebrities and Bollywood star, it made me really think!! Indian actress and former Miss world (whom Oprah also believed to one of the most beautiful women on Earth) gave birth in November 2011. She seems to be a non-celebrity and an everyday woman when it comes to losing baby weight and people don't seem to grasp this!!
Cut her some slack! She looks beautiful still!

Before - Movie start; After - A woman who gave birth mere 4 months ago. I say,  images are about right!
For them the incredible, almost magical time line of re-gaining the pre-baby body of most celebrities has become so normal that when they see Aishwarya unable to don a bikini after 4 weeks of birth, they are confused!! She is being commented on, even ridiculed and taunted for being 'fat' now! I want her to be fit again and may be go back to her pre-baby weight but I'd give her at least 8 months (that I took) before I offer her a subscription to Jenny Craig!
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March 21, 2012

Inspiration New York - How To Wear A Button Down Shirt This Spring

I had a chance meeting of someone from publishing world in a party long time ago. I was working in corporate world  at the time and casually mentioned my dream job of working for a fashion magazine. "If you are serious about this", he said, "and  if you have the option of living anywhere in the world and New York, always pick New York!" I had forgotten about the incident until I actually moved to New York and realized what the publishing guy meant! People here know how to dress up! (I am talking about my experiences of American cities, so please pardonne moi if you don't see European cities discussed in my post!) I see people on New York streets, dressed as if they are straight out of a fashion magazine!! I have spotted some really chic styles on the subways! (There are some exceptions of course!) New York style is so eclectic, unique, chic and fearless! The city always inspires me to dress better, put my best foot forward so to speak! One piece of clothing that I always turn to when in doubt - a button down shirt! Inspired by New York style, I created 3 looks for today's post where button down shirt takes center stage with the help of updates accessories! I imagine a chic woman strolling in the cobbled street of SoHo, exploring art galleries in East Village, and tasting a gourmet snack at Chelsea Market, dressed simply, but still turning heads!

More information about this look here

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And here is something I always want to say to someone I see on the New York city streets with amazing pair of shoes-
Image via Pinterest
How do you describe the style of your town/neighborhood? And Do you also do the double take when you see them shoes on someone??
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March 20, 2012

First Day Of Spring 2012! (Reflections From The Past, Plans For Future)

Today marks the first day of spring for the Northern Hemisphere! Spring brings the hopes of a beautiful season, warmer days and pleasanter evenings, bright colors, beautiful flowers with sweet fragrances (and spring break in Cancun too!) Last year this time, I had just started my blog, we were living in gorgeous Evanston (a suburb of Chicago) and planning our big move to New York. The Spring in Chicago is so beautiful and I will miss seeing the gorgeous Lake Michigan and the colorful sailboats in the summer! Here are some pictures from last spring!


This year in spring, my blog is one year old and I have built some really sweet relationships, have had meaningful conversations and during the process, learned so much about myself!! Hopefully this journey will continue and next Spring I will have more sweet memories from this year to share!
Meanwhile, there are few things I am coveting, (list in another post)- among them, a perfect Maxi Dress! There is something about a floral, flowy, feminine maxi dress that makes you feel gorgeous!! Take a gander at this beauty  - it comes with the four digit price! But hey! Spring is meant to dream, isn't it!!
Giambattista Valli maxi dress
Looking forward to Summer 2012 - in this Ann Taylor maxi dress!! Isn't life beautiful??
Image Via Ann Taylor Inc
And this spring season, I plan to -
  • Enjoy the New York City in its Spring glory {whatever THAT is:-)}
  • Try to ride the bike with my daughter every day
  • Wear (more) color
  • Write every day
  • Attend at least one big fashion/style/blogging event in NYC
  • Just have fun and live in the moment

I leave you with a Spring Haiku by Kobayashi Issa -
Spring breeze-
the pine on the ridge
whispers it

Have a happy Spring everyone! What are your plans this season?
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