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April 11, 2012

Wearing Cropped Cargo Pants, Floral Top & Remembering The Power Of Kindness

I remember growing up we had a little picture in our living room of a garden full of flowers that had these words printed on top -"Little deeds of  kindness, little words of love, Make our Earth an Eden like the heaven above". I don't remember who put that picture there (probably mom), but I remember my dad pointing to the picture and reading the lines aloud when my siblings (I have a brother and a sister BTW) used to have a fight over insignificant things (which all sibling fights usually are). Dad would come to us, make us sit and tell us how kindness can make us 'bigger person' when we have a disagreement or a quarrel! He used to say our smiles, sweet words and generosity are God's gift to us and we have the power to use our 'gift' to solve any problem and resolve any fight! And believe me I have experienced (many times) how a smile and soft gentle words can calm the situation and you can make other person listen to you and understand what you have to say! As my dad says, people are usually good, they want to avoid conflict, they want to be happy - if you can give them a chance to do that, they grab onto it without hesitation! I am not suggesting that you 'fake' it, but when you start with a smile and kindness, you lay the ground rules of the conversation! The other person has no choice but to start from where you are! Happy and with a smile!! It sounds too simple to be effective, but usually the best solution is the simplest one!
Now about today's outfit - it is a simple and happy! Some flowers, some color and a cheerful attitude! Can you feel my smile greeting you? How can you argue with this face??;-)

Top - Macy's (2009)
Cropped Cargo Pants - From India (2004) (yep, that old!!)
Shoes - Target (2011)




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In next post, I'd like to share an example when one little deed of kindness touched so many people! Have you experienced a situation where a smile and few gentle words influenced, calmed or improved the environment?
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58 comments:

  1. Haha - I know too well all about brotherly fights :D But I agree, there are time when just a smile works in a fiery situation rather than harsh words. Love those pants - the colour is so pretty!

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  2. nice pants...
    kisses
    http://color-blockbyfelym.blogspot.com

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  3. Lovely look and you look so fit !! I totally agree with you when it comes to SMILE :)

    ♡ StylishByNature.com

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  4. I relly looove that floral top!:)

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  5. love this outfit, so nice for spring and lovely bright colors :)

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  6. Your outfit is so spring-y! I love it!

    xo,
    xo,
    janmloves.blogspot.com

    PS, I'm having a giveaway on my blog if you're interested :)

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  7. That is such a lovely, colorful outfit! Love those pants!

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  8. Your father was a genius to impart those words of advice throughout your childhoods. He is soooo right! I wish there were more families who subscribed to that philosophy that kindness is an effective remedy.

    It worked on you, obviously, with this very powerful message of positivity. You look radiant. Excellent flower ring, too!

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  9. Lovely blouse and cropped pants :)
    N yes I've experienced that as well :) wud love to see ur next post

    My New post is up- Change is Inevitable.. or maybe you'd like to check White in Night.. or both! :D

    Love
    Akanksha

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  10. You look uber pretty:)
    what a mix of trend..wow:)

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  11. You look so lovely my dear! Kisses!

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  12. these colors make think about summer,
    but here is so cold:((
    love the pants;))

    amy

    http://thefashionamy.blogspot.it/2012/04/georgina-estherr-creations-from-santo.html

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  13. You look so spring ready, dear! I love your bright pants :)

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  14. Love the pants!

    Mind to follow each other?

    Alessia

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  15. So bright and colourful, looove the outfit and you look so gorgeous!

    Love,
    J - http://juliechoice.blogspot.com/

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  16. You look great and I love your pants!

    Great blog, I'm following!

    And thank you for the sweet comment on my blog!

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  17. You look fantastic! And those pants look smashing with the floral top!

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  18. loving your outfit!
    the pants are gorgeous :)
    xxx

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  19. Great words from your father ...When we used to have little sibling arguments, I always smiled, it confused them, lol. acts of kindness is best. Love those cropped pants on you. Beautiful printed top. :)

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  20. Your comment was sooo sweet dear!
    Great blog you have too,
    cute top!
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  21. Ahhh, I absolutely LOVE that floral top!
    Great colorful bottoms you paired with it too <3

    Trendy Teal

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  22. The top is amazing. I love that you tell a story with your outfit. Beautiful!

    Rebecca
    www.twenty-somethingme.blogspot.com

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  23. I love these pants. The color and the nice way they fit you.

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  24. you look gorgeous, the cargo pants and the floral top are so cute together :D

    xoxo
    http://jemenfousss.blogspot.mx/

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  25. That's a great quote and your father was a wise man, much like my dad!

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  26. I love it!! Perfectly paired together! (:

    xoxo,
    Cindy C.
    http://styleologie.blogspot.com/

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  27. Oh I so love your blue capri!!! You are beautiful! addicted to your blog, totally!

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  28. So lovely!! Love the colour! Great words from your father! x

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  29. Cute outfit, loving those shoes! Thanks for the sweet comment on my blog!

    Lucy Loves To Blog

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  30. Cute outfit, loving those shoes! Thanks for the sweet comment on my blog!

    Lucy Loves To Blog

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  31. Cute cARGO pants colour...super chic with this BLOUSE

    Nice smile =)

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    XOXO from MUNICH

    La Vie Quotidienne

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  32. Thank you, have a nice week too !
    Awesome colour of your pants !:D

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  33. Thank you, have a nice week too !
    Awesome colour of your pants !:D

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  34. That floral top is so pretty, and love the color of your pants!

    Annie
    The Other Side of Gray

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  35. I love your look and especially your attitude! Just beautiful! Bountiful blessings to you. xo

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  36. you look absolutely charming in your outfit! love the photos!

    Babi
    www.whenbabispeaks.com

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  37. beautiful blog!! Thanks for your comment. Following your blog! Follow back if you like :)
    MaryFashionLove

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  38. Hi :) ,thank you for the Comment ,i follow ,if you like my Blog follow back ,i wait for you ;D

    Great Pants ,you look gorgeous<3
    Lovely greetings from Austria!

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  39. That was really lovely words , you spoke the truth ! and your outfit is way too cute xo

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  40. ahhhh! i love your fit! your pants & floral top is freaking wonderful :)

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  41. I love how those pants and earrings match! Great outfit

    xoxo Sootjeelina <3

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  42. I love this floral blouse and pants are so sweet :)

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  43. I just read over on Kendi's blog about Tim Gunn saying no to capris, but you "Make it work"!

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  44. sooo spring! :)

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  45. lovely words. we're 5 kids so imagine the random bickering. nice outfit & colors

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  46. ..fantastic outfit , so colourful and fun , perfect for sunny days :)

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